Mirrors are wonderful things. That have been around for thousands of years as a way for us to see who we really are and what we look like to others around us. Sometimes when we feel really horrible about ourselves we may even find ourselves looking intently into the mirror to stare into our own eyes to tell ourselves to fix what ails us. In movies, main characters often stare at themselves intently trying to tell themselves to "get with it!" or to motivate themselves to take on some great task by urging them to have some backbone or hold it together as they face some great challenge ahead
Today our country is deeply divided. Some say we are more divided today than we were in the days of the Civil War and Slavery. We all like to point the finger at a small group of people to hold the responsibility. Maybe you blame Trump or Obama for the mess we are in. Or maybe you blame more broadly the GOP or DNC as the culprits. It doesn't matter really because the real person to blame is much closer than that probably. That person may be, in fact, staring you directly back at you in the mirror.
I feel that to really see the cause, everyone should take a good look in the mirror and say "I am the cause of our nations division!". Ask yourself intently
- Have I posted or shared angry articles on Facebook?
- Have I issued snarky Tweets on Twitter?
- Have I gotten into comment wars on websites?
- Have I stopped talking to people I know because of their party affiliation?
- Have I made jokes about the other sides ideas?
- Have I offered any kind comments in response to others Facebook articles?
- Have I offered positive Tweets on Twitter when I find agreement?
- Have I tried to be a peacemaker on website comment boards?
- Have I made amends with those I disagree with politically?
- Have I apologized for any rude jokes that others might have not found "funny"?